lilshyann
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posted on 08-07-2006 at 18:41 |
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Somethings wrong?
I'm am 20yrs old. I've been with 3 guys(long relationships)and I have the same problem with all of them. The only way I can get off is them eating me out. They can put there dick in, and I can't feel a thing. I can tell its in there, but it's not as wonderful as every ones says. It hurts alot to. When I go for ck ups all she says it evrythings look healthy and normal he must just have a large penis. She never tells me different. So does anyone have any answers why my pussy's broke.
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Gonzalez87
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posted on 08-08-2006 at 12:50 |
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some ideas
Well maybe your too small or too narrow.
Maybe your not relaxed because your trying to feel these "wonderful feelings"
You could always buy lube if it really hurts.
Failing all of these, I guess you just have to hope your man has a small penis. I am really culeless on this one but I thought I would give it a crack. Hope it gets better 4 you.
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dreamangel
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posted on 08-08-2006 at 18:06 |
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here's some advice
Don't worry, many women have the same problems as you do. It takes years and years of sex before many women learn to enjoy it. And over half of all women cannot orgasm through intercourse alone, but need a combination of clitoral stimulation as well.
First off, make sure you only have sex with someone you're in love with. Sex along with emotion will create a deeper experience....this is exactly why young girls who have flings think sex is over-rated. Sex gets better with time and when you're with the same partner. The more you learn, discover your body, the better sex will become.
There are positions that can be used (missionary) where the penis rubs against the top of the clitoris with each thrust (although it's tricky to do)
You could also try a vibrator on the clit while you're having intercourse....there are not a lot of nerve endings deep inside the vagina unfortunately, which is why you might not feel much, but you could try and find your G-spot which is inside the upper wall of the vagina that needs to be stimulated.
You could also try Women on top which gives you the control and depth and he can stimulate your clitoris during intercourse... In fact, try having your clitoris stimulated at all times during intercourse.
Trust me, some women have sex for 10/20 years and never achieve an orgasm from intercourse alone...don't sweat it. Just make sure you're clitoris finds stimulation somehow and with enough time you might learn to orgasm from intercourse alone....but don't worry, your problem is completely normal and common.
And it's not the size of your vagina/tightness/size of his penis or what not, but the biological fact that most women need a combination of clitoral stimulation to orgasm..this can be achieved many ways so don't worry.
And it's statistically shown that women reach their sexual peak in their 40's and also those who are in love and with the same partner for years have the best sex in comparison to women who are 20 and having casual sex, so it will get better.
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CharlieBrown
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posted on 08-09-2006 at 20:10 |
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oh
You should stop fucking so much,whore.
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Tubgirl
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posted on 08-09-2006 at 21:34 |
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me too
seriously, I am the exact same way.
I dont think i got off until I did double anal for the first time.
Really you should try it
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Bred_Rong
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posted on 08-10-2006 at 07:55 |
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Wait, u don't feel it & he has a large penis?
it sounds 2 me like u need to do some barnyard porn & make some money off of the fact that you have a suitcase sized pussy! LoL! go girl!
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Jilly
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posted on 08-10-2006 at 07:58 |
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My little ass
Is your ass supposed to bleed after taking 10 cocks? Just curious. tee hee
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Bred_Rong
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posted on 08-10-2006 at 07:58 |
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LMMFAO!!!
And it's statistically shown that women reach their sexual peak in their 40's and also those who are in love and with the same partner for years have the best sex in comparison to women who are 20 and having casual sex, so it will get better.'
LOL!! LET ME GUESS, UR A 40 YR O W/A DRY PUSSY!! hmmm... better sex, when I go to college and fuck an entire fraternity, or when I fuck the same 4 inch cock having guy for 20 yrs b/c he can buy me a Porsche??? lolololo!!!
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lilshyann
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posted on 08-12-2006 at 15:40 |
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Thanks
I'm still kind of embarrassed to ask anyone besides my doctor, but it kinda feels nice. Unless you get these little childish kids on here to make an ass of them selfs. They will see one day that every ones not perfect! my b/f that I going to marry in 2 months said I just need to stop worring. I will say I do worry alot, but I just like to know about my body and whats going on. He said I need to relax and not think on anything but us. In my opinion I think it has to do with depression. Its hard telling anyone these things, but when I was 6 a family member touched me places he shouldn't have. Then my Uncle took me and his daughter to the Bahamas, and I had to pretend to be on my period the whole time. Then one night I woke up and he was sucking my tits. He tried touching me and I kept saying NO I'm on my period.I was Scared shitless. I was 17 and I grew up in church I didn't want this to happen. He asked me to jack him. So I told him I was going to tell Monica his wife if he didn't stop. Then he grabbed my hand and put it on his penis..I was shaking so bad I didn't know what to do.He finially jurked back because I wouldn't do ti and he heard something and he kept doing things but it would take all day to type.. then 4 months later I met this wonderful guy who was so so sexy. He invited me to his house. He than locked the doors turmed some porn on and I was a lot smaller then him so you know what happen next.Yeah he raped me... Not only did it hurt like hell, but I think it did something to me about sex. Then my father fast away...my best friend...my everything...we were so close to each other...So I think my problem might have to do with depression. So being 20 and being with 2 guys by choice doesn't make me a whore...(CharlieBrown)I will never let a guy take advantage of me I would never disapoint my daddy...I don't have a suitcase pussy either...(BredRong) I said I could feel him...I just get so upset that I can't feel that feeling like I do when he's eating me...but it could just be me....and both my ex and my soon to be husband love having sex with me...I just can't get off..I hate butt fucking I tried it once and I will never ever do that again..it hurt way to bad... Anyways thank you Dreamangel and Gonzalez87 for you advice. Me and Ken have been together for two years...I made him wait 1 year and 4 months... So I'd agree with you about learning about each other. Maybe things will change...I hope....I love that rush and well you all know....but thanks ...LilShyAnnsmile :)
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