jessjess
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posted on 04-14-2006 at 21:42 |
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bf too thick
I am a virgin and tried to have sex with my bf. It was already 10 months we tried by he still cannot fit into me, he is really thick (2.3"). We have try a lot of thing like lube, foreplay, use some small object and etc but I am still in a lot of pain when he try to enter me. Is it not advisible for a virgin to start with this huge and thick penis?
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virginguy81
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posted on 04-15-2006 at 06:45 |
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i posted another commet on your other post about lube but i see you have tried that! i think that he is just too big for you!! some girls cannot take that much due to thier frame size! ou are going to have to work your way up to that and you may still not ever be able to fit that much into you pleasurable!!! after all it is about the both of you to have pleasure!!! good luck!!
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17_CONFUSE
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posted on 04-16-2006 at 00:02 |
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WOW
YOU MEAN 2 TELL ME A GUY PENIS CAN BE TOO BIG FOR GIRL? SO WHAT DO YOU DO? IS THAT NORMAL FOR A GUY 2 BE THAT BIG?HOW DO YOU KNOW IF HE IS THAT BIG?THIS IS SOMETHING NEW 2 ME.THIS JUST MAKES ME EVEN MORE AFAIRD 2 DO ANYTHING.I HAVE A FEAR OF PAIN.IT IS JUST 2 MANY THINGS YOU HAVE 2 WORRY ABOUT WHILE HAVING SEXSORRY IF I ASKED 2 MANY QUESTION.I JUST NEVER REALLY HAD THE SEX TALK WITH ANY ONE.
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20yearsavi
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posted on 04-17-2006 at 16:34 |
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big?
i had somewhat of the same problem. But I also think that your body tells you thing in ways that we sometimes have to hear when just thinking. For me a like think things through, from my experenice I learned that even though I love my b/f im not that atractted to him and that my body was telling me that he wasn't the "one" so to speek. I don't know if that helps you with your fears but I hope that it gives you some confort.
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jessjess
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posted on 05-19-2006 at 20:32 |
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too pain
I tried sex many time but he still cannot enter me as I am in a lot of pain. I have try a lot of way but still cannot help. Anybody having the same problem before can advise me? Anyway to reduce my bf penis size?
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anonymous01
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posted on 05-27-2006 at 15:31 |
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bf too big
it may just have to hurt the first time. my bf is also rather big and i have a small frame, and for a while, we were worried he'd never actually fit. but eventually, i sucked it up, and just stood the pain. it hurt a lot, but only for a few minutes, and it hasn't hurt like that since. in fact, now it usually doesn't even hurt at all.
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JAYJAY82
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posted on 05-29-2006 at 13:39 |
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help4u
i would find a guy who knows what they are doing and how to get you very aroused so it will slide in better and you will enjoy it! try to find a smaller guy? small framed girls usually dont like big guys! and by the way you are normal and girls who enjoy big guy usually have been around so keep your head up and i am so proud of you for waiting this long good luck to you!!!!!
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clarisa
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posted on 05-31-2006 at 00:03 |
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too big
Yall are worring me! Does it have to hurt the first time you have sex?
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MarriedNLovnIt
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posted on 06-22-2006 at 15:44 |
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Wow..
Okay, I just got married-6/11/06
I am a virgin-and I have never fooled around w/any other guys or anything so I have only seen my husband's penis-So I dont know how thick one is supposed to be-but he's 7 1/2 long and i would say 2" or more thick-He is 6'2 and 145 lbs-small guy-I am 5'3 and 98 lbs small girl-but he's big I think in the private region?!
We have tried a few times to make love and I can't-it hurts-I have very low tolarance for pain and i can't do it-Even when he is loving on me and stuff-if I start thinking about the pain I get turned off-So is there a possibility that I wont be able to make love to him?
Are there any like topical creams that can numb me untill he's in?! haha! I mean this is rediculous I cant even make love to my own husband! Any advice would be great! Thank you!
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jessjess
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posted on 08-01-2006 at 03:28 |
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still cannot enter me
I have tried again few times after I posting this. He still cannot enter me as I am in a lot of pain, feel like my vagina stretch until its limit and push in a little more will feel like my vagina going to split into two by a sharp knife.
That time not even half of his penis head goes inside me. My vagina need to stretch a lot more to allow it to go it, I don't think I can handle it, so I ask him to stop. Everytime the pain is same, it never reduce from one try to another. I think I am going to ask him to force it in but I am worry about how long the pain will last. Anybody can share your experinece of the first time having sex whether the pain will continue until he finished or will go away every soon? Normally how long the pain will last (ex: 10 min)?
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moonlite
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posted on 08-01-2006 at 13:43 |
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Still Cannot
I was at an all girl's party and we were discussing this very thing, There was only one girl there who did not claim to be a virgin so we took everything she said as true. She said that with her first time she hurt a lot but the fellow withdraw violently and suddenly and it hurt then worse than the entry.  
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AyaSan
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posted on 08-26-2006 at 20:53 |
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LOl
sorry but the last comment was kind of funny. but anyway. to all women out there who is having this problem. YES! LUBE WOULD DEFINATELY HELP!! either with lubrication that your own body produces or other gels. and yes girls, practice makes perfect. some people do have a smaller frame and it is hard to lose your virginity to a BIG one. so if you girls can, buy a dildo and try to practice on yourself. your virgina is another muscle, you do need practice a little before you can handle a big one. and girls! YES! your first time will hurt. but not hurt enough to kill you! and have to warn you all, usually on your first time, there will be blood! but its normal, and nothign to worry about. and all i can say is, maybe you are thinking about the pain too much. if you keep on expecting the pain to come, you will feel more pain. so try to think of something else, focus on how much you love your bf, kiss him while he's penetrating you. just try to get your mind off of the pain. and man! the word JAM sounds so painful! don't tell your bf to JAM it in, just give it some time. but in the mean time, while you are practicing, there are other ways you can pleasure him. like giving him a blowjob. if his penis is too large for you to go all the way down on him, form your hand into the shape of an O and make sure your lips and your hand don't have any space while you are stroking him. go all the way down with the hand and his penis will probably enter your mouth half way. it will feel JUST the same for him. i hope it helped. if not.. you can find more information from GOOGLE im sure ^-^ good luck to you all.
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KICKER
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posted on 09-06-2006 at 07:57 |
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Desensitizing Spray
If you want something to aid in numbing your inerts, Make a stop by the adult store or porn shop and pick up a small bottle of Desensitizing Spray. It contains Benzocaine, The same thing your dentist uses to numb your mouth when you get dental work done. Open your vagina opening as wide as you can get it comfortably and spray it inside 15-20 minutes before intercourse. If your uncertain its working spray a likable amount on your fingers and insert them and rub it on the walls of your vagina. Wait till the spray takes effect before applying any lube. The only drawback to using this process to aid in insertion is you will be numb on the inside and theres a good chance your clitorus will be numbed too. ALSO once he is in, It will be being rubbed on his penis and will take the same effect on him. Theres a good chance neither 1 of you will be able to ejaculate BUT you will have solved your problem of being able to get it in.
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sexybiatch69
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posted on 09-08-2006 at 16:54 |
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the bigger the better trust me
ya it will hurt at first
but once u lose it
u will be so happy he is huge
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problemchild
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posted on 09-19-2006 at 05:08 |
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it gonna hurt
mmost datyme it hurt like hell fo da first time but try go n ta da gyno may b he can break yo hymen fo u to make it easier that wut my cuzn did
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BigOne
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posted on 09-23-2006 at 06:14 |
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look cuties...
the pain is from your hymen still being intact, try a couple glasses of wine to relax, also to numb any pain, then lay back and take it, better still, go on top, so you have control, make sure you are very wet, insist on your fella going down on you, until you are excited enough for this, then try, (ideally a bottle of wine would be great), (i meant to drink, not as an insertion tool)... once you have taken his length once, you will be fine and then you can start to learn all about how to bring your fella off, if he hasn't already done so...
Dr. BigOne...
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jeffscully
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posted on 09-25-2006 at 03:22 |
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Dr Bigone
I have a bottle that i inserted after following your advice incorrectly and its starting to smell any ideas on removal on said foreign object ?
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problemchild
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posted on 10-02-2006 at 14:47 |
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try getn a smaller dick to break yo hymen fo u so it wont hurtas bad wen yo bf do it to u
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jazz
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posted on 10-04-2007 at 20:01 |
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girl you sould be glad that your boyfriend has a big dick!
i think the more u do it it well start feeling better
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VirginHunting
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posted on 10-22-2007 at 00:50 |
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Two points.
1: The skin will adjust to accommodate size over time. You can use lube and take it slow for now, but as you relax and try more it will be easier. You can practice with a vibrator or dildo of comparable size, which leads me to point number 2.
2: Penile girth is typically measured by circumference, not width. Various locations on the penis have different dimensions.
Good times.
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